THE EX-FACTOR
A new booklet
by Sonja
 
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Do you
find communicating with your ex more challenging than a visit to the
dentist?
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Do you
find it difficult to say “no” to your ex?
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Is
your ex or your partner’s ex angry, non-supportive, needy or intrusive?
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Does
your or your partner’s ex badmouth you to the children?
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Do you
find yourself obsessing or brooding about your partner’s ex?
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Does
your partner’s relationship with their ex drive you crazy?
If
your answer to any of these questions is ‘yes’, then this booklet is for you
So you have an
ex-partner and things between you aren’t great?!
You had high
hopes that once the dust had settled over your divorce, things between you
would calm down and you would be able to work together for the benefit of
your mutual children, but all your hopes are dashed. Nothing you have tried
seems to have made a great deal of difference. Your ex-partner still seems
as hurt and as angry as ever and makes a point of letting you know their
feelings at every turn.
I am aware that
this is no consolation, but let me assure you, you are not the only one who
feels this way! Unfortunately, there are many separated or divorced couples
who find themselves in similar situations.
Difficult as
this already proves to be, yet another complexity is added to the scenario
once you decide to repartner. This generally tends to add fuel to the fire
that is burning within an ex-partner’s heart who is unwilling or unable to
move on themselves.
A NEW SONJA’S
STEP BY STEP BOOKLET that offers tips on how to effectively deal with the ex
partner is now available.
The majority of
these tips have either been shared with Sonja by her blended family clients,
by the stepparents who frequented her website or by her wonderful site
assistants who made such a difference in the lives of those who came to the
site seeking understanding and hope.
All the tips
you will find in this booklet are tried, tested and have been effective for
someone or other in a situation similar to yours. The first 10 tips are more
applicable to people who struggle with their own ex-partners. The second 10
tips are designed to help your new partner survive the ex-experience.
To order this new
booklet, please
call Sonja during business hours on 61 2 9450 1212
or
to download an order form you can email or fax to 61 2 9402 5304 .